Valentine`s day and single??

12:15 AM

Being single on valentine`s day is not the end of the world and certainly not a bad thing. It`s just a day set aside for couples to celebrate themselves and yeah do all the romantic stuffs (what do I know). This does not mean you have to go around desperately searching for someone to be your valentine. And it`s definitely not the time to be jealous of your friends who are celebrating with their spouse.



Okay so maybe this is actually talking a little bit about me. Not until yesterday while talking to a friend, I was thinking of how my valentine`s day was going to suck. I asked her what are we going to do on valentine`s day? I expected her to answer with " oh we just gonna go out with those hot dudes who`s been after us for a while now and go out on a date with them and after on the 14th, it`s all over" I thought so because this my friend likes to have fun and she is more daring than I am. But she said " I think I am just gonna celebrate myself with some good food and probably some nice time in town with you guys (she means me and another friend)". So there, I had it all wrong. You don`t need a day to remind you of being single, because your being single is for a reason.

Don`t think you are ugly or go in a depress mood because of all the "romanticness" going on around you. You just do you and enjoy yourself. Celebrate the people around you. Buy them chocolate and send them flowers. Secretly send them valentine cards and just make your loved ones smile. It`s more fun that it sounds, trust me. Don`t let 14th of february fool you, tomorrow is another day.

So I plan on doing interesting stuffs on valentines day. I already know what kinds of things it will be doing and yeah I will surely update you guys on those things. I love valentine`s day because I have a reason to celebrate with the lovely people that surrounds me.

Maggie.P

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  1. Valentine's Day! Hmmm! Everyday should be a day to celebrate those we love. I sure will enjoy myself. There's no need for one to be down and out because you don't have that 'man' in your life, at least not yet!

    When that time comes, you'll have plenty of Valentine's day to celebrate. You might even get sick of it. Haha :)

    Lovely post, Maggie! Have fun with your friends. Eat some good food and laugh your heart out! :)

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    1. Yeah you are so right :) and hahha sure "when the time comes you might even get sick of it", you got me laughing real hard. Thank you beautiful, have a lovely val day too. *Loves*

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    2. If I might add, it's a day for MARRIED couples..with the one you have sworn to spend the rest of your life. For singles, just show all the love you can to your family and treasured friends because soon enough, you'd be sharing the moment with the special one :)

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  2. You've got me! We've got each other hahahah :) <3

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  3. I totally agree with this post, I have friends who literally get depressed on Valentine's day because they are single. I for one love love, and though I will be single on Valentine's Day, I plan on fully enjoying it with a few of my single gal pals:) Hope you have a great Val day:)

    Kisses, Sasha

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    1. Just the same though I have :) no time to feel down. Thanks for stopping by :) xoxo

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  4. This post is very honest and real. I was in a relationship not too long ago so I assumed I would have a Valentine on Vday and when that didn't work out, I was scrambling for things to do with thoughts like, I should go out to dinner and dress to the nines blah blah blah, but then I had a thought, why? Why do I feel like I HAVE to do something on Valentine's Day? So alas, I am going to go out to dinner and dress to the nines with my girls but sometime next week. I applaud the couples who have a lover for Thursday, but Thursday shouldn't be the only day where that acknowledgement is received and shown. I get that now. Happy Vday!

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    1. Oh I can really relate to what you just expressed here. For those in relationships, i think it`s important to know as you have said that both parties should be celebrated daily and not just when it`s val day :) Agree! Loves :)

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